And Koh's words were compelling and simple and emotionally-charged, laced with humor and humility and the odd inside joke. One (of the many things) he said that stuck with me:
The biggest tree gets the wind.
Now, I'd be lying if I said I knew exactly what Koh meant by these words. But I will give it a shot. Koh implored the graduates (and all of us) to be big, to live big, to do big things. To make a splash, to leave a mark. But it also seems that he warned that the biggest tree qua biggest tree is in many ways on its own and necessarily so. It doesn't blend in with the others. No, it sticks up and out. It gets buffeted, knocked around by the elements. Translation: putting yourself out there means getting knocked around a bit by the world. But isn't it worth it?
Now I am a sucker for good metaphors, particularly those about the natural world. So I liked this one. Loved it.
But this Korean proverb also made me laugh. Why? See the tree depicted above? The big one? That was our view at the Commencement Ceremony on Yale's Old Campus earlier yesterday morning. Maybe we lingered too long over our hotel eggs benedict, but our seats were not very good.
And yet we didn't miss a thing. No, we took it all in. The Memorial Day air, ripe with music and metaphor. The ubiquity of sun and smiles. The soft and occasional gust of wind tickling that tree and whispering words and wisdom.
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